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I told you the story about Tolstoy, Leo Tolstoy, who wrote the book called “War and Peace.” […] That he had a very terrible wife. Very, very terrible, more terrible than yours, I’m sure. […] Because Tolstoy was a spiritual practitioner. That’s why when you read his story, it’s almost a story about spirituality, about God, and very happy, very positive. It’s very good to read his books. […] If you search back to the old magazines, you’ll find them. So, you can read more. Such a thing is very good for you. I mean, not good for your soul, but good for your mind. It gives you peace of mind, because when your mind accepts something, it makes you peaceful. […]
We have to always appease the mind. And the husband-and-wife quarrel is also because of the mind. He (the mind) records all kinds of garbage information and whenever the situation is nearly the same, he puts out the same stuff. And husband and wife or partners quarrel again; almost always it’s the same story, same mistake again. So even if you quarrel with each other a lot, do know that it’s just the mind that makes trouble, or the karma. […]
So do love each other beyond the mind, beyond the physical contact, beyond sex, beyond troubles. You have to love with the love of God, with the enduring kind of love, and unconditional. Then it will last, and it will sail over troubled waters. […] Throw away the bad quality but do not throw away the person. Everyone has to have something to work with. That’s what we are here for. That’s what this life is all about. It’s difficult but it’s not impossible. I myself try to be an example of it. So, you yourself also try to be an example for yourself. Alright? Be happy. […]
